Posted by Gellie in Leadership, Mindset | 14 Comments
What is your WHYs in LIFE?
I would like to share something here that I wrote in my FACEBOOK note sometimes in September 2009, how it inspires me and how it affects my life specially whenever I do something NEW; it has been a way of life for me. ENJOY reading
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As I was contemplating on something, looking at my journal and things I would like
to write in preparing for my blog…this one topic I shared few years back, and it has been planted in my heart and a way of life; it works, and I would like to
share this again with you before the year end…Happy reading my friends and
loveones
Here’s a gift for all of us to take whenevever we are:
Dan O’Brien tells the story of sitting in a meeting with other Olympic hopefuls a couple of years before the games were held. Addressing the athletes was a former decathlon winner who asked how many of them had specific goals for their Olympic dreams. Everyone raised a hand. Then the speaker asked how many had these goals written down. Almost every athlete reaised a hand. Then he asked a final question: how many had their written goals with them? No one raised a hand. Not a single athlete had brought written goals. From then on, Dan O’Brien carried his goals with him everyday and everywhere. He went on to win the decathlon medal.
Be absolutely clear about what you want out of your business before you decide what you will put into it. Why is this important? Because goals create focus, energy, and passion.
—- they strengthen the will
—- they create purposeful living
—- they become a compass which gives us our headings when we get lost in the fog.
Goals keep us on track when the task seems too BIG, too DIFFICULT, and too FAR AWAY. When our dreams and future goals are vivid, it is much easier to know how to schedule our lives in the present.
In any significant life endeavor, there will be moments when we experience fatigue, frustration, and doubt. In those moments we are acutely aware of what we are doing, how exciting it is, and how much easier it would be to quit. So much discomfort could be eliminated by just quitting. And in those moments when we are tempted to take the easy way out, we will ask ourselves, “WHY AM I DOING THIS?” It is a good question. But when we asked this question we’d better have a reply that is quick, cogent, and unequivocating.
For this reason, knowing WHY we do the business is more important than HOW we do it. The WHY is what keeps us going while we learn the HOW we do it. Ask any enterpreneur what keeps him or her going when business is not developing as swiftly as they imagined.
There is one thing that keeps them going: the clarity of their DREAMS.
—- they keep their eyes on the prize.
—- they take the long view.
—- they dont let immediate circumstances rob them of their future dreams.
Or as Paul Orberson (who makes more than US$1 million per month in this industry) remind us, “Dont let the bugs on the windshield rob you of seeing the horizon.” It is vivid, palpable conviction of the future that keeps people going when the present is not all that is pleasant. They have determined what they want. And now they will not be denied. Deciding what they want and why they want it creates what Bear Bryant called “bulldong tenacity.”
A clear dream does two things: it creates perspective and perserverance.
There is one book that says, “Write it down and make things happen”. Have you tried to write down your dreams and see
things before it happens? If not, why not try this time and you will see…I tried it so many times and it works!!!
…if you have been touched, or blessed or this message speaks to you, would love to hear from you
and know your thoughts
Thank you so much and stay blessed because you are blessed




a goal is nothing without your WHY because your WHY makes you persevere to achieve it
Edison,
Thank you for dropping by here and for sharing your thoughts. Looking forward to hearing more from you and learning as well.
Stay blessed.
GELLIE
I am encourage by your blog and I think of it, for me the question WHY is positive and negative, we can always ask this question in our life but not finding or doing something to answer it. I hope you are one of the WHY in my life. WHY I know you through fb? I know God has a purpose, HE bless you so you can be a blessing to others. surely as you bless others, blessing in your life will overflow. Godbless. Thanks a lot my new friend:)
Hi Lhen,
Thank you so much for dropping by here and glad to know you got inspired with what you have read here.
I really appreciate you sent me a private message too and that led me to give you my 30-minutes FREE coaching. Speak to you soon:)
Looking forward to seeing you soon.
GELLIE
I find this topic very useful and I learned a lot. I am looking forward to learn more as I need someone who can guide me as I start my career as a business person. Good luck!
Thank you.